Behnam says that renting offers the benefit of being able to move whenever you want to take a job in another part of the country or even just in a different location within the Washington area.
"It's also nice not to have to pay for maintenance," says Behnam. "If your air conditioning breaks down, your landlord has to pay $6,000 to replace it, not you."
Homeowners not only need the money to make repairs, but they must make time to maintain their property, says Nancy Wert, a realty agent with Re/Max Realty Centre in Olney, Md. Even a relatively small and newer home requires at least some maintenance; an older home may require a bigger budget for home repairs.
An important factor in deciding to buy your first home is how long you plan to stay in the area.
If you only plan to stay in your area for three years, you should probably rent, says Shelley Green, a real-estate broker with Long & Foster in Bethesda, Md. "It's best to stay in your home at least five to seven years to recoup the cost of buying and to build equity."
Another option to consider, if you're here for just a few years but think you'll be back, is to purchase a home that will appeal to renters, says Jen Angotti, a real estate agent with DCRE Residential in Washington. Look for a good location and the amenities a renter might like, live in it yourself and then rent it, says Angotti, who adds, "Of course, you need to be ready at that point to be a landlord."
Wert says many buyers decide to become homeowners when they're ready to commit to a location for their children to attend school, because they want to invest in that community and maintain friendships there.
Behnam says another incentive to become a homeowner is the ability to make decisions about how to decorate or improve your property rather than having to seek your landlord's approval.
On a purely financial basis, many future homeowners say they feel they're wasting money by paying outrageous rents and are concerned about rent increases. Buyers who opt for a fixed-rate mortgage have the advantage of knowing their principal and interest payments will remain the same, although property taxes and homeowners' insurance premiums can rise.
"Over the long term, a lot of financial planners say buying a home is a great way to build wealth, because you build equity as you pay down your loan and you have the benefit of the tax deduction," says Angotti.
While there's no guarantee that home values will increase during any given period and values sometimes decline, holding onto your home for the long term offers more of an opportunity for the value to increase in addition to building equity through loan repayment.
Even if you're emotionally ready to buy a home and think it's a smart financial move, you need to find out as soon as you can if you're qualified to buy. While a stable job history and a solid income are important, you also need good credit and money saved for a down payment.
The sooner you talk to a lender, the better, says Gail Kullman, a senior loan officer with Prime Lending in Alexandria, Va.
"The way rents have escalated in the D.C. area means that buying a home sometimes costs less than renting or the same," says Kullman. "But you need to get your finances in order and give yourself time to improve your credit score if you need to, because your score not only allows you to qualify for a loan but it also dictates your interest rate."
Kullman warns that would-be buyers need to estimate a comfortable mortgage payment for themselves rather than relying on the lender's loan qualification process.
"If you think you can afford a $1,500 per month mortgage but your rent is $1,100 and you haven't been able to save, you may need to rethink that," says Kullman. "Part of your decision to buy should be to take a hard look at your income, to see if it's stable and rising, and to look at your assets to make sure you have enough for a down payment and for reserves in case of an emergency."
Kullman suggests saving the difference between your rent and your estimated mortgage for a year or longer to get used to the larger payment and to generate additional savings for cash reserves and a down payment.
While the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau's new "Qualified Mortgage" rules allow for a debt-to-income ratio of 43 percent, Behnam says she thinks that's too high because it's based on your gross income.
"You should base your budget decisions on your net income rather than your gross income," says Behnam. "A lot of buyers estimate their payment based on the principal and interest they pay, but you also need to include property taxes, homeowners' insurance, homeowner or condo association dues and possibly mortgage insurance and flood insurance."
Behnam recommends keeping a cash reserve equal to two mortgage payments in the bank to cover potential home repairs in addition to your emergency fund of three to six months or more of expenses.