Meanwhile, the improvements we worked hard to implement are proving successful, which is being seen as proof that we needed a manager and the new guy is taking all the credit. I cannot shake the feeling that the fact that my co-worker and I are both female, and our new supervisor is male, plays into this dynamic.
What do I say when the director asks me how he is working out?
A: You've heard the expression "damning with faint praise"?
"Oh, Sparky is great. He trusts Co-worker and me to take care of things. And I know we could go to him for help if we had problems."
But to play manager's advocate: A key skill in supervising people is knowing when to stay out of the way of a system that's chugging along efficiently. If management insists on saddling you with a superfluous overseer, a benign bystander beats a micromanager every time.
Still, next time he's chatting at you, try involving him: "Oh hey, I'm glad you're here Co-worker and I are swamped, and I could really use a hand with ⅛task he needs to learn⅜. Would you be able to help?" He'll make himself either scarce or, ideally, useful.
Since his hiring overlapped with your new procedures, it's unlikely you'll be able to correct the record on anything he's already taken credit for. But going forward, you and your co-worker can document your problem-solving with each other in email, present your solutions to Sparky for his signoff, and then communicate your solutions to the director cc'ing Sparky, of course. That way, although you're respecting the hierarchy and following appropriate channels, you're also subtly letting others know where the ideas are really coming from.
I know it chafes to be laboring in his shadow while he absorbs the sunlight. But if you keep him in the loop when problems arise, he can also provide shelter from the fallout. A smart supervisor knows he needs to take care of a team that makes him look good.
PRO TIP: If you suspect your workplace has a pervasive practice of promoting or holding back workers because of gender- or age-based bias, visit eeoc.gov for guidance or to file a complaint.
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