Dehlin previously had been told in a letter from North Logan LDS Stake President Bryan C. King that the two needed to talk by June 18 or the Mormon leader would have to launch a church disciplinary hearing to consider excommunicating the researcher-blogger.
King wanted to postpone the date of their meeting and expressed a "desire for de-escalation," said Dehlin, who describes himself as a churchgoer with serious doubts about LDS history and teachings.
"I have mixed feelings about the delay," Dehlin said. "I am cautiously optimistic because he talked about de-escalation, but a little confused because the original letter seemed so certain that a [disciplinary] hearing was inevitable."
The threatened actions against Dehlin and Kate Kelly have created a buzz of media attention and a firestorm of responses in Mormon social media.
Kelly's case is further along in the process than Dehlin's. She has already been put on "informal probation" by Scott Wheatley, her LDS stake president in Vienna, Va.
When Kelly refused to give up Ordain Women, take down its website, and stop discussing female ordination to the faith's all-male priesthood, Wheatley told her she could not "partake of the sacrament [communion], hold a church calling, give a talk, offer a public prayer or participate in the sustaining of church officers."
Last week, Kelly's former bishop, Mark Harrison, notified her of the June 22 disciplinary council to consider further action, including excommunication. The hearing will be convened in Virginia despite the fact that Kelly now lives in Utah, where she is staying until she and her husband move to Kenya.
The Utah-based Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has stated that disciplinary actions against members are the responsibility of local leaders.